If you are your partner have been an item for a good few years and things aren’t quite what they used to be, it is likely the relationship is suffering. If you both have careers and are also managing a family, there’s hardly a time when you are both free and your sex life usually suffers as a result. Bedtime used to be fun, but now you are both asleep before your head hits the pillow!
Here are a few ways that you can inject a bit of spice into your relationship.
- Plan a romantic break on the next long weekend – Forget everything, ask a relative to mind the kids and fly off to Bali for a few days in paradise. Every relationship is strained by the fast pace of life and the work commitments we all have and getting away from the routine pressure is sometimes the right thing to do.
- Sex toys – Many relationships benefit from adult toys; check out the dildos and other sex toys available from Australia’s leading online adult store. Let your imagination run wild and see what accessories hit the hot button for you both. Your partner might be into bondage and you never knew! It is important to talk about sex with your partner in an honest way; find out what he/she really likes and explore together. The online adult store sends products in discreet packaging, so you won’t have to worry about what the neighbours might think.
- Start being unpredictable – We do mean in a positive way; call your partner out of the blue and tell them you want to hear their voice; buy flowers on impulse and turn up at their pace of work as they leave and dine at that cosy restaurant you both like. This will arouse your partner’s interest and that might be enough for you both to try harder; it’s the little things that make the difference. Predictability can lead to boredom and with both parties trying to be a bit different, the relationship can bloom.
- Watch porn together – This is a great idea; choose a quiet time when the kids are asleep and login to Pornhub, the world’s largest library of erotic movies that are bound to send pulse rates soaring. You should both be comfortable discussing what turns you on and what has the opposite effect and let things develop.
- Romantic dinner – Either at home or your favourite restaurant, make sure that you both have the next day off work and take your time with the meal; order a nice bottle of red wine and relax together. Make it a weekly thing but vary the venue to keep things interesting and if you have a bit more to drink, take a cab home, the car will be fine in the car park.
Routine can really impact a romantic relationship and we hope the above ideas can add some much-needed spice to your relationship.
